In an effort to purge some of my memorabilia from relationships past, I sat down with boxes of cards, poems, photos, and keepsakes from the last 12 years and came across a portrait of something more powerful than my difficult past… Something beyond finding love after religious and sexual trauma…
I found a series of news articles from June 2003, highlighting the major headlines that shaped the movement for equality in America. I saved these articles, just one month after graduation from Cincinnati Christian University, where I was closeted for years. All of these articles, I cherished, a year year before I published Coming Out without Coming Apart.
I placed these news articles in this collage below…
And I leave this photo with you, to begin your own reflection on what we have accomplished in the last 12 years. We have a long way to go…
But looking back on half a generation of advocacy work represented in this short photo reflection, I can say the following:
I finally believe that I am whole.
I finally believe that my country can learn to respect my dignity as a citizen.
I finally believe that I can choose faith or I can leave it if it does not lift me higher.
I finally believe that my bedroom and my body are mine.
I finally believe that my President is on my side.
I see evidence that Love really does matter.
After all we’ve seen in the last 12 years, maybe we can finally believe that we DO belong…
One can hope.
Consider for yourselves, how far we’ve come and perhaps you can believe in our ability to go even farther!
Gail is an author, poet, blogger and activist whose book, Enlightened-ish chronicles her spiritual awakening experience after witnessing a suicide, grieving her father’s unexpected death and leaving a spiritual community. Her first book, “Coming Out of the Closet without Coming Apart at the Seams” was published in 2004. Gail has appeared in FOX DC News, SkyNews and Our America with Lisa Ling as an advocate for ex-gay survivors and young people. Her freelance work has appeared in God Allows U-Turns, Encounter Magazine, Blue Mountain Arts, and Outlook Weekly. “For Gail So Loved the World” is her blog, where she discusses spirituality, politics and social and emotional intelligence from a global perspective. Her spoken word pieces and drumming meditations are available on YouTube and she schedules private speaking engagements where these performances are shared. Gail is the only lesbian known to hold a Bachelor’s Degree from Cincinnati Christian University. Currently, Gail resides in the Washington, DC Area and serves her local community as the Executive Director of a nature-based early learning center.